How to Get an Ex Back? — Win Their Heart Again

How to Get an Ex Back?

Steps to Get an Ex Back and Win Their Heart.

  • Evaluate Your Feelings — sometimes you might think you want your ex back, only to find out that you were just more fearful of being alone. Before you reopen a chapter it is best that you make sure that you really want a relationship with this person again. If your feelings are genuine and strong then you’re ready for the next step.
  • Find Out What They Feel — Before you go making a fool of yourself you want to first try and figure out if your ex is still interested in you. There are a few signs that can help you with that such as frequent communication, constantly running into each other, your ex has been single for a long time, or they constantly ask about you to their friends. If there are some signs of interests you can pursue.
  • Invite Them to Casual Conversation — This conversation should not consist of finger pointing or kicking anyone under the bus. Instead the conversation should be light in nature. Talk about what you’ve been doing since you broke up, happy memories you have from when you were dating, and if necessary maybe even apologize for the part you may have played in the demise of the relationship. Keep it calm and cool and allow your ex to see the change in you. To get an ex back, it’s important to keep conversation casual and devoid of any negativity.
  • Be Apologetic — When the timing is right and you feel that there could be a chance that you get an ex back you should be willing to apologize. Nothing shows maturity more than a person who is willing to admit their faults, show progression towards the future, and be willing to move on from it.
  • Show Them You Still Care — After you’ve apologized it’s time to find ways to send signals that you’re interested in getting your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend back. Find small ways to show them that you care. You can do this by sending flirtatious text messages on occasion. Do you know something that your ex used to love? For instance if you know they love coffee from Starbucks why not consider picking them up a cup and taking it to them?
  • Be There — Last but not least is to just be there. This might seem a bit strange, but it works. As your ex is going through life changes just make sure that you are there for them when they need someone most. If they feel that they can confide in you and get sympathy and advice the love connection could spark.



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